Online Couples Therapy & Marriage Counseling

Expert support to help you heal, reconnect, and grow—together, from anywhere in California.

You hear yourself saying this…

“We get stuck in the same argument over and over.”

“We feel disconnected and don’t know how to get the spark back.”

“We just don’t communicate well.”

“We have different values and can’t find common ground.”

But you want to be saying this…

“When we fight it ends in resolution and warmth”

“Our love ebbs and flows but we know how to reignite it.”

“We have a communication toolkit when things get tricky.”

“Our differences have become one of our greatest strengths.”

Hi, I’m Emily Chong.

I’m a Couples Therapist in California, trained in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), Somatic Psychotherapy and Internal Family Systems (IFS).

I’m passionate about helping couples navigate conflict, rebuild trust, and deepen their emotional connection. 

Whether you're in Los Angeles, Palm Springs, the Bay Area, San Diego, Santa Barbara—or anywhere else in California—I offer secure, online couples therapy, bringing expert relationship support directly to you.

Client Testimonials

  • My partner and I are beyond grateful for the support and guidance we've received from Emily. From the very first session, she made us feel completely at ease, creating a safe and judgment-free space where we could be open and honest. Her kindness, insight, and gentle approach helped us navigate hard moments. One of the most valuable things we've learned is how to communicate in a way that truly strengthens our relationship and see each other in different ways. If you're looking for a compassionate and thoughtful couples therapist, Emily will be a great choice. She has helped us rediscover the love, trust, and connection that brought us together to move forward with hope and love.

    Mila & Chris

  • "I've been in and out of psychologists' and psychiatrists' offices for most of my adult life, and Emily is hands-down the most effective talk therapist I've ever met. My best friend and I saw her for couples therapy after a particularly intense fight, and in just five sessions, Emily's gentle and insightful approach to encouraging open communication helped us unpack things we hadn't been able to talk about in twenty-three years. I'm very grateful for the part she played in strengthening our relationship and highly recommend her."

    Jennifer J

  • "Working with Emily is a truly unique experience, and not only because it is the first time for me to have an Asian, female therapist, which in itself is extraordinary for me as an Asian woman myself. Emily also provides a rare combination of highly trained psychological, somatic and spiritual knowledge in a holistic approach to existence. She creates a very gentle and respectful atmosphere making it possible to access deeper layers in my healing work as well as understanding and celebrating my life with more acceptance. I highly recommend working with Emily!"

    Joan C

  • "Emily is an amazing couples therapist. I appreciate her direct style and how she gets to the core of the issue quickly. She helped me understand my attachment style and how that's impacting how I show up. We identified cycles we were stuck in and were able to break them with Emily's help - major relief!"

    M.O.

  • "It's such an incredible experience to work with someone who will hold space to get to know the deepest parts of your life without trying to judge it, fix it, or solve it. Emily has been that for me, and in doing so, created a place of curiosity and rest from which I can reframe, let go, or even accept the parts of myself and my relationships that I struggle with. I incredibly appreciate the fact that she leads with listening, but also has a deep base of knowledge and resources that she both pulls from and can point me towards."

    Candice A

  • "Working with Emily is a life changer. She is a fantastic listener and is able to bring thought and behavioral patterns that you may not have noticed to your awareness. I have many "aha" moments when working with her, and they linger throughout the week as I meditate on them."

    Emily L

  • "Emily has helped with some of the most difficult and painful times of my life. She is empathetic and warm but also challenging and insightful. I genuinely have felt so cared for. It is clear that she is passionate about her work and helping people. Emily is also the first East Asian therapist I've worked with and it has been valuable having someone who understands those cultural dynamics, especially when it comes to family. It's really nice not having to explain things that are so foundational in my background. I can't recommend Emily enough."

    Jess H

  • "Emily has been instrumental in helping me navigate significant life events related to family, work, personal growth, and relationships. As a therapist, she is open, supportive, and highly professional. She creates a safe space for me to explore emotions while being direct and insightful--never hesitating to highlight areas for deeper reflection or growth. One of the things I appreciate most is our shared cultural background, which has made it easier for me to open up about personal experiences and feel understood. Emily's approach balances warmth with honesty, and I highly recommend her to anyone seeking meaningful and effective therapy!"

    Claire Z

  • "Emily is an exceptional therapist who combines deep empathy with a remarkable ability to hold space for even the most challenging emotions. Emily has a natural warmth that makes you feel safe and understood. She's a great listener and brings a thoughtful, compassionate, and curious approach to her work, which allows her to guide clients toward meaningful insight and healing. Her care and attention to detail shine through in everything she does, whether it's individual sessions, group facilitation, or providing tools for processing difficult emotions. I cannot recommend Emily enough for anyone seeking a grounded, intuitive, and highly skilled therapist. She is truly a gem!"

    David T

Is couples therapy right for you? Is it worth it?

It’s true—therapy takes work. But it’s also one of the most powerful investments you can make in the future of your relationship.
Here are some of the most common benefits couples experience through therapy:

Rediscover the Joy

Reconnect with the warmth, love, and intimacy that first brought you together. Couples therapy helps renew closeness and trust—so you don’t just co-exist, you reconnect.

Break Cycles

Uncover and express the feelings that matter most. EFT helps you break painful patterns so you and your partner can truly see and understand each other again.

Communication Toolkit

EFT helps you understand the emotional triggers behind conflict and communicate with less friction and more empathy. You'll gain practical tools to express your needs clearly and respond with greater compassion.

See Each Other

EFT helps you tune into the emotions beneath the surface—so you and your partner can truly see, hear, and understand one another again.

Reduce Conflict

EFT helps you recognize the emotional triggers beneath conflict and navigate disagreements with less friction—and more empathy, warmth, and care.

Deepen Connection

Feel closer to your partner—and maybe even fall in love again. Couples therapy helps build the deep emotional bond that lasting intimacy depends on.

Areas of focus

I welcome individuals of all identities and backgrounds. My practice affirms and celebrates people of all races, religions, genders, and sexual orientations. Below are some of my areas of specialty—if you’d like to explore whether we’re a good fit, I’d be happy to connect.

  • In Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), conflict is often seen as a signal of deeper emotional needs or unmet attachment wounds. By helping couples express these underlying feelings, we create a safer space for honest, open dialogue—leading to more understanding and lasting resolution.

  • In EFT, sexual intimacy is deeply connected to emotional security. Therapy supports partners in understanding each other’s vulnerabilities, building the trust and safety that allow intimacy to deepen and flourish naturally.

  • Attachment-based therapy understands infidelity as a rupture in the emotional bond. In therapy, we create space for vulnerability, helping partners explore the deeper fears and unmet needs beneath the betrayal—with the goal of rebuilding trust and restoring secure connection.

  • Therapy acknowledges that cultural differences can bring both challenges and strengths. EFT supports couples in honoring each other’s backgrounds, understanding how culture shapes emotional responses, and deepening connection through shared meaning and mutual respect.

  • EFT helps couples build a strong emotional foundation before marriage by exploring attachment patterns and strengthening communication. Therapy offers a supportive space to clarify expectations, deepen emotional security, and create a shared vision for your future together.

  • Attachment-based therapy explores how parenting styles are shaped by our own attachment histories. EFT helps partners align their approaches, creating a more connected, supportive environment—for both their relationship and their children’s emotional well-being.

  • EFT focuses on strengthening emotional bonds by helping partners express core feelings and needs. Therapy supports the development of a more secure, connected attachment—laying the foundation for lasting emotional intimacy.

  • Major life changes can unsettle emotional security. EFT offers a safe space to navigate transitions together, helping partners stay attuned to each other’s evolving needs and maintain a strong, flexible bond through change.

  • In EFT, financial conflict is often a surface issue reflecting deeper emotional needs or fears. Therapy creates space to explore the emotional meaning behind money, helping partners move from tension to empathy and collaborate more effectively around finances.

Let’s Connect

I offer a free 15-minute consultation to help you get a feel for whether working together would be a good fit.

Just fill out the form below, and I’ll be in touch within 1–2 business days to schedule your consultation.